The Loved Ones Chastened
by REV. C.H. SPURGEON
“As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.” Revelation 3:19.
THE DEALINGS OF GOD towards the sons of men have always puzzled the wise men of the earth who
have tried to understand them. Apart from the revelation of God the dealings of Jehovah towards his
creatures in this world seem to be utterly inexplicable. Who can understand how it is that the wicked
flourish and are in great power? The ungodly man flourishes like a green bay tree; behold, he stretcheth out his
roots by the river: he knoweth not the year of drought; his leaf withereth not; and his fruit doth not fall in an
untimely season. Lo, these are the ungodly that flourish in the world; they are filled with riches; they heap up gold
like dust; they leave the rest of their substance to their babes; they add field to field, and acre to acre, and they
become the princes of the earth. On the other hand, see how the righteous are cast down. How often is virtue
dressed in the rags of poverty! How frequently is the most pious spirit made to suffer from hunger, and thirst, and
nakedness! We have sometimes heard the Christian say, when he has contemplated these things, “Surely, I have
served God in vain; it is for nothing that I have chastened myself every morning and vexed my soul with fasting;
for lo, God hath cast me down, and he lifteth up the sinner. How can this be?” The sages of the heathen could not
answer this question, and they therefore adopted the expedient of cutting the gordian knot. “We can not tell how it
is,” they might have said; therefore they flew at the fact itself, and denied it. “The man that prospers is favored of
the gods; the man who is unsuccessful is obnoxious to the Most High.” So said the heathen, and they knew no
better. Those more enlightened easterns, who talked with Job in the days of his affliction, got but little further; for
they believed that all who served God would have a hedge about them; God would multiply their wealth and
increase their happiness; while they saw in Job’s affliction, as they conceived, a certain sign that he was a
hypocrite, and therefore God had quenched his candle and put out his light in darkness. And alas! even Christians
have fallen into the same error. They have been apt to think, that if God lifts a man up there must be some
excellence in him; and if he chastens and afflicts, they are generally led to think that it must be an exhibition of
wrath. Now hear ye the text, and the riddle is all unriddled; listen ye to the words of Jesus, speaking to his servant
John, and the mystery is all unmysteried. “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and
repent.”
The fact is, that this world is not the place of punishment. There may now and then be eminent judgments;
but as a rule God does not in the present state fully punish any man for sin. He allows the wicked to go on in their
wickedness; he throws the reins upon their necks; he lets them go on unbridled in their lusts; some checks of
conscience there may be; but these are rather, as monitions than as punishments. And, on the other hand, he casts
the Christian down; he gives the most afflictions to the most pious; perhaps he makes more waves of trouble roll
over the breast of the most sanctified Christian than over the heart of any other man living. So, then, we must
remember that as this world is not the place of punishment, we are to expect punishment and reward in the world
to come; and we must believe that the only reason, then, why God afflicts his people must be this:
“In love I correct thee, thy gold to refine,
To make thee at length in my likeness to shine.”
I shall try this morning to notice, first, what it is in his children that God corrects; secondly, why God
corrects them; and thirdly, what is our comfort, when we are laboring under the rebukes and correctings of our
God. Our comfort must be the fact that he loves us even then. “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten.”
I. First, then, beloved, WHAT IS IT IN THE CHRISTIAN THAT GOD REBUKES? One of the Articles of
the Church of England saith right truly, that, naturally, “man is very far gone from original righteousness, and is of
his own nature inclined to evil, so that the flesh lusteth always contrary to the spirit; and therefore in every person
born into this world, it deserveth God’s wrath and damnation. And this infection of nature doth remain, yea in
them that are regenerated; whereby the lust of the flesh, called in the Greek, phronema sarkos, which some do
expound the wisdom, some sensuality, some the affection, some the desire, of the flesh, is not subject to the Law
of God. And although there is no condemnation for them that believe and are baptized, yet the Apostle doth
confess, that concupiscence and lust hath of itself the nature of sin,” and because evil remains in the regenerate
there is therefore a necessity that that evil should be upbraided. Ay, and a necessity that when that upbraiding is
not sufficient, God should go to severer measures, and after having failed in his rebukes, adopt the expedient of
chastening. “I rebuke and chasten.” Hence God has provided means for the chastisement and the rebuking of his
people. Sometimes God rebukes his children under the ministry. The minister of the gospel is not always to be a
minister of consolation. The same Spirit that is the Comforter is he who convinces the world of sin, of
righteousness, and of judgment; and the same minister who is to be as the angel of God unto our souls, uttering
sweet words that are full of honey, is to be at times the rod of God, the staff in the hand of the Almighty, with
which to smite us on account of our transgressions. And ah! beloved, how often under the ministry ought we to
have been checked when we were not? Perhaps the minister’s words were very forcible, and they were uttered
with true earnestness, and they applied to our case; but alas! we shut our ear to them, and applied them to our
brother instead of to ourselves. I have often marveled when I have been preaching. I have thought that I have
described the cases of some of my most prominent members. I have marked in them diverse sins, and as Christ’s
faithful pastor, I have not shunned to picture their case in the pulpit, that they might receive a well-deserved
rebuke; but I have marveled when I have spoken to them afterward, that they have thanked me for what I have
said, because they thought it so applicable to such another brother in the church, whilst I had intended it wholly for
them, and had, as I thought, so made the description accurate, and so brought it out in all its little points, that it
must have been received by them. But alas! you know, my friends, that we sit under the sound of the Word, and
we seldom think how much it belongs to us, especially if we hold an office in the Church. It is hard for a minister
when he is hearing a brother minister preach, to think, it may be, he has a word of rebuke to me. If exalted to the
office of elder or deacon, there groweth sometimes with that office a callousness to the Word when spoken to
himself; and the man in office is apt to think of the hundreds of inquirers unto whom that may be found
applicable, and of the multitudes of the babes in grace to whom such a word comes in season. Ay, friends, if we
did but listen more to the rebukes of God in the ministry, if we hearkened more to his Word as he speaks to us
every Sabbath day, we might be spared many corrections, for we are not corrected until we have despised
rebukes, and after we have rejected those, then out comes the rod.
Sometimes, again, God rebukes his children in their consciences, without any visible means whatever. Ye
that are the people of God will acknowledge that there are certain times, when, apparently without any
instrumentality, your sins are brought to remembrance; your soul is cast down within you, and your spirit is sore
vexed. God the Holy Spirit is himself making inquisition for sin; he is searching Jerusalem with candles; he is so
punishing you because you are settled on your lees. If you look around you there is nothing that could cause your
spirits to sink. The family are not sick; your business prospers; your body is in good health; why then this sinking
of spirit? You are not conscious at the time, perhaps, that you have committed any gross act of sin; still this dark
depression continues, and at last you discover that you had been living in a sin which you did not know some sin
of ignorance, hidden and unperceived, and therefore God did withdraw from you the joy of his salvation, till you
had searched your heart, and discovered wherein the evil lay. We have much reason to bless God that he does
adopt this way sometimes of rebuking us before he chastens.
At other seasons, the rebuke is quite indirect. How often have I met rebuke, where it never was intended to
be given! But God overruled the circumstance for good. Have you never been rebuked by a child? The innocent
little prattler uttered something quite unwittingly, which cut you to your heart, and manifested your sin. You
walked the street, may hap, and you heard some man swear; and the thought perhaps struck your mind, “How
little am I doing for the reclaiming of those who are abandoned!” And so, the very sight of sin accused you of
negligence, and the very hearing of evil was made use of by God to convince you of another evil. Oh! if we kept
our eyes open, there is not an ox in the meadow, nor a sparrow in the tree, which might not sometimes suggest a
rebuke. There is not a star in midnight, there is not a ray in the noon-day, but what might suggest to us some evil
that is hidden in our hearts, and lead us to investigate our inner man, if we were but awake to the soft whispers, of
Jehovah’s rebukes. You know, our Saviour made use of little things to rebuke his disciples. He said, “Consider the
lilies of the field, how they grow. Behold the fowls of the air, how they are fed!” So he made lilies and ravens
speak to his disciples, to upbraid their discontent. Earth is full of monitors: all that we need, are ears to hear.
However, when these rebukes all fail, God proceeds from rebuke to correction. He will not always chide; but, if
his rebukes are unheeded, then he grasps the rod, and he uses it. I need not tell you how it is that God uses the
rod. My brethren, you have all been made to tingle with it. He has sometimes smitten you in your persons,
sometimes in your families, frequently in your estates, oftentimes in your prospects. He has smitten you in your
nearest and dearest friend; or, worse still, it may be he has given you “a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to
buffet you.” But you all understand, if you know anything of the life of a Christian, what the rod, and the staff,
and the covenant are; and what it is to be corrected by God. Let me just particularize for a few minutes, and show
what it is that God corrects in us.
Very frequently, God corrects inordinate affection. It is right of us to love our relatives it is wrong of us to
love them more than God. You, perhaps, are yourselves to-day guilty of this sin. At any rate, beloved, we may
most of us look at home when we come to dwell on this point. Have we not some favored one perhaps, the
partner of our heart, or the offspring of our bosom, more dear to us than life itself? Have I not heard some man
whose life is bound up in the life of the lad, his child? some mother, whose soul is knit into the soul of her
babe some wife, some husband, to whom the loss of the partner would be the loss of life? Oh, there are many of
us who are guilty of inordinate affection toward relations. Mark you, God will rebuke us for that. He will rebuke
us in this way. Sometimes he will rebuke us by the minister; if that is not enough, he will rebuke us by sending
sickness or disease to those very persons upon whom we have set our hearts; and if that rebuke us not, and if we
are not zealous to repent, he will chasten us: the sickness shall yet be unto death. The disease shall break forth
with more fearful violence, and the thing which we have made our idol shall be smitten, and shall become the food
of worms. There never was an idol, that God either did not, or will not pull out of its place. “I am the Lord thy
God; I am a jealous God;” and if we put any, however good and excellent their characters may be, and however
deserving of our affection, upon God’s throne, God will cry, “Down with it,” and we shall have to weep many
tears; but if we had not done so, we might have preserved the treasure, and have enjoyed it far better, without
having lost it.
But other men are baser than this. One can easily overlook the fault of making too much of children, and wife,
and friends, although very grievous in the sight of God; but alas! there are some that are too sordid to love flesh
and blood; they love dirt, mere dirty earth, yellow gold. It is that on which they set their hearts. Their purse, they
tell us, is dross; but when we come to take aught from it, we find they do not think it is so. “Oh,” said a man once,
“if you want a subscription from me, Sir, you must get at my heart, and then you will get at my purse.” “Yes,”
said I, “I have no doubt I shall, for I believe that is where your purse lies, and I shall not be very far off from it.”
And how many there are who call themselves Christians, who make a god out of their wealth! Their park, their
mansion, their estate, their warehouses, their large ledgers, their many clerks, their expanding business, or if not
these, their opportunity to retire, their money in the Three per Cents. All these things are their idols and their gods;
and we take them into our churches, and the world finds no fault with them. They are prudent men. You know
many of them; they are very respectable people, they hold many respectable positions, and they are so prudent,
only that the love of money, which is the root of all evil, is in their hearts too plainly to be denied. Every one may
see it, though, perhaps, they see it not themselves. “Covetousness, which is idolatry,” reigns very much in the
church of the living God. Well, mark you, God will chasten for that. Whosoever loveth mammon among God’s
people, shall first be rebuked for it, as he is rebuked by me this day, and if that rebuke be not taken, there shall be
a chastisement given. It may be, that the gold shall melt like the snow-flake before the sun; or if it be preserved, it
shall be said, “Your gold and silver are cankered; the moth shall eat up your garments, and destroy your glory.” Or
else, the Lord will bring leanness into their souls, and cause them to go down to their graves with few honors on
their heads, and with little comfort in their hearts; because they loved their gold more than their God, and valued
earthly riches more than the riches that are eternal. The Lord save us from that, or else he will surely correct us.
But this is not the only sin: we are all subject to another crime which God abhors exceedingly. It is the sin of
pride. If the Lord gives us a little comfort, we grow so big that we hardly know what to do with ourselves. Like
Jeshurun of old, of whom it is said, “Jeshurun waxed fat and kicked.” Let us for a little time enjoy the full
assurance of faith; self-conceit whispers, “You will retain the savor of that all your days;” and there is not quite a
whisper, but something even fainter than that “You have no need to depend upon the influence of the Holy Spirit
now. See what a great man you have grown. You have become one of the Lord’s most valued people; you are a
Samson; you may pull down the very gates of hell and fear not. You have no need to cry, ‘Lord, have mercy upon
me.’ ” Or at other times, it takes a different turn. He gives us temporal mercies, and then we presumptuously say,
“My mountain standeth firm; I shall never be moved.” We meet with the poor saints, and we begin to hector over
them, as if we were something, and they were nothing. We find some in trouble; we have no sympathy with them;
we are bluff and blunt with them, as we talk with them about their troubles; yea, we are even savage and cruel
with them. We meet with some who are in deep distress and faint-hearted; we begin to forget when we were
faint-hearted too, and because they cannot run as fast as we can, we run far ahead, and turn back and look at
them, call them sluggards, and say they are idle and lazy. And perhaps even in the pulpit, if we are preachers, we
have got hard words to say against those who are not quite so advanced as we are. Well, mark, there never was a
saint yet, that grew proud of his fine feathers, but what the Lord plucked them out by-and-by. There never yet
was an angel that had pride in his heart, but he lost his wings, and fell into Gehenna, as Satan and those fallen
angels did; and there shall never be a saint who indulges self-conceit, and pride, and self-confidence, but the Lord
will spoil his glories, and trample his honors in the mire, and make him cry out yet again, “Lord, have mercy upon
me,” less than the least of all saints, and the “very chief of sinners.”
Another sin that God rebukes, is sloth. Now I need not stop to picture that. How many of you are the finest
specimens of sloth that can be discovered! I mean not in a business sense, for you are “not slothful in business;”
but with regard to the things of God, and the cause of truth, why, nine out of ten of all the professors of religion, I
do hazard the assertion, are as full of sloth as they can be. Take our churches all around, and there is not a
corporation in the world, however corrupt, that is less attentive to its professed interest, than the church of Christ.
There certainly are many societies and establishments in the world that deserve much blame for not attending to
those interests which they ought to promote; but I do think the Church of God is the hugest culprit of all. She says
that she is the preacher of the gospel to the poor: does she preach it to them? Yes, here and there: now and then
there is a spasmodic effort: but how many are there that have got tongues to speak, and ability to utter God’s
Word that are content to be still! She professes to be the educator of the ignorant, and she is so in a measure: there
are many of you who have no business to be here this morning you ought to have been teaching in the
Sabbath-school, or instructing the young, and teaching others. Ye have no need of teachers just now; ye have
learned the truth. and should have been teaching it to other people. The church professes that she is yet to cast the
light of the gospel throughout the world. She does a little in missionary enterprise; but ah! how little! how little!
how little compared with what her Master did for her and the claims of Jesus upon her! We are a lazy set. Take
the church all round, we are as idle as we can be; and we need to have some whipping times of persecution, to
whip a little more earnestness and zeal into us. We thank God this is not so much the case now, as it was even
twelve months ago. We hope the church may progress in her zeal; for if not, she, as a whole, and each of us as
members, will be first rebuked, and if we take not the rebuke, we shall afterwards be chastened for this our great
sin.
I have no time to enter into all the other reasons for which God will rebuke and chasten. Suffice it to say that
every sin has one twig in God’s rod appropriated to itself. Suffice it to say, that in God’s hand there are
punishments for each particular transgression; and it is very singular to notice how in Bible history almost every
saint has been chastened for the sin he has committed by the sin itself falling upon his own head. Transgression
has been first a pleasure, and afterward it has been a scourge. “The backslider in heart shall be filled with his own
ways,” and that is the severest punishment in all the world.
Thus I have tried to open the first head it is that God rebukes and chastens.
II. Now, secondly, WHY DOES GOD REBUKE AND CHASTEN? “Why,” says one, “God rebukes his
children because they are his children; and he chastens them because they are his children.” Well; I will not go the
length of saying that is false, but I will go the length of saying it is not true. If any one should say to a father, after
he had chastened his child, “Why is it you have chastened the child?” he would not say, it is because I am his
father. It is true in one sense; but he would say, “I have chastened the child because he has done wrong.” Because
the proximate reason why he had chastened his child would not be that he was his father, though that would have
something to do with it as a primary reason; but the absolute and primary cause would be, “I have chastened him
because he has done wrong, because I wish to correct him for it, that he might not do so again.” Now, God, when
he chastens his children, never does it absolutely; because he is his father; but he does it for a wise reason. He has
some other reason besides his fatherhood. At the same time, one reason why God afflicts his children and not
others, is because he is their Father. If you were to go home to-day and see a dozen boys in the streets throwing
stones and breaking windows it is very likely you would start the whole lot of them; but if there is one boy that
would get a sweet knock on the head it would be your own; for you would say, “What are you at, John? What
business have you here?” You might not be justified, perhaps, in meddling with the others you would let their
own fathers attend to them; but because you were his father, you would try to make him remember it. Certain
special chastisements are inflicted on God’s children, because they are his children; but it is not because they are
his children that he chastens them at any one time, but because they have been doing something wrong. Now, if
you are under chastisement, let this truth be certain to you. Are the consolations of God small with thee? Is there
any secret thing with thee? Art thou chastened in thy business? Then what sin hast thou committed? Art thou cast
down in thy spirit? Then what transgression has brought this on thee? Remember, it is not fair to say, “I am
chastened because I am his child;” the right way to say it is, “I am his child, and therefore when he chastens me he
has a reason for it.” Now, what is it? I will help you to judge.
Sometimes God chastens and afflicts us, to prevent sin. He sees that the embryo of lust is in our hearts; he
sees that that little egg of mischief is beginning to hatch and to produce sin, and he comes and crushes it at
once nips the sin in the bud. Ah! we can not tell how much guilt Christians have been saved from by their
afflictions. We are running on madly to our destruction, and then some dark apparition of trouble comes, and
stretches itself across the way, and in great fright we fly back astonished. We ask, why this trouble? Oh! if we
knew the danger into which we were rushing we should only say, “Lord, I thank thee that by that direful trouble
thou didst save me from a sin, that would have been far more troublous and infinitely more dangerous.”
At other times God chastens us for sins already committed. We perhaps have forgotten them; but God has
not. I think that sometimes years elapse between a sin and the chastisement for it. The sins of our youth may be
punished in our gray old age; the transgression you did twenty years ago, those of you who have grown old, may
this very day be found in your bones. God chastens his children, but he sometimes lays the rod by. The time
would not be seasonable perhaps; they are not strong enough to bear it: so he lays the rod by and he says, as
surely as he is my child, though I lay the rod by, I will make him smart for it, that I may at last deliver him from
his sin, and make him like unto myself. But mark, ye people of God, in all these chastisments for sin there is no
punishment. When God chastises you he does not punish as a judge does, but he chastens as a father. When he
lays the rod on, with many blows and smart ones, there is not one thought of anger in his heart there is not one
look of displeasure in his eye; he means it all for your good; his heaviest blows are as much tokens of his affection
as his sweetest caresses. He has no motive but your profit and his own glory. Be of good cheer, then, if these be
the reasons. But take care that thou dost fulfil the command “Be zealous, therefore, and repent.”
I read in an old Puritan author the other day a very pretty figure. He says, “A full wind is not so favorable to a
ship when it is fully fair as a side wind. It is strange,” says he, “that when the wind blows in an exact direction to
blow a ship into port, she will not go near so well as if she had a cross wind sideways upon her.” And he explains
it thus: “The mariners say that when the wind blows exactly fair it only fills a part of the sails, and it can not reach
the sails that are ahead, because the sail, bellying out with the wind, prevents the wind from reaching that which is
further ahead. But when the wind sweeps sideways, then every sail is full, and she is driven on swiftly in her
course with the full force of the wind. Ah!” says the old Puritan, “there is nothing like a side wind to drive God’s
people to heaven. A fair wind only fills a part of their sails; that is, fills their joy, fills their delight; but,” says he,
“the side wind fills them all; it fills their caution, fills their prayerfulness, fills every part of the spiritual man, and so
the ship speeds onward toward its haven.” It is with this design that God sends affliction, to chasten us on account
of our transgressions.
III. And now I am to conclude by noting WHAT IS OUR COMFORT WHEN GOD REBUKES AND
CHASTENS US?
Our great comfort is, that he loves us still. Oh! what a precious thing faith is, when we are enabled to believe
our God, and how easy then it is to endure and to surmount all trouble. Hear the old man in the garret, with a
crust of bread and a cup of cold water. Sickness has confined him these years within that narrow room. He is too
poor to maintain an attendant. Some woman comes in to look to him in the morning and in the evening, and there
he sits, in the depths of poverty. And you will suppose he sits and groans. No, brethren; he may sometimes groan
when the body is weak, but usually he sits and sings; and when the visitor climbs the creaking staircase of that old
house, where human beings scarcely ought to be allowed to live; and when he goes into that poor cramped up
room that is more fit to accommodate swine than men, he sits down upon that bottomless chair, and when he has
seated himself as well as he can upon the four cross pieces of it he begins to talk to him, and he finds him full of
heaven. “Oh! sir,” he says, “my God is very kind to me.” Propped up he is with pillows, and full of pain in every
member of his body, but he says, “Blessed be his name, he has not left me. Oh! sir, I have enjoyed more peace
and happiness in this room, out of which I have not gone for years,” (the case is real that I am now describing)
“I have enjoyed more happiness here than I ever did in all my life. My pains are great, sir, but they will not be for
long; I am going home soon.” Ay, were he more troubled still, had he such rich consolation poured into his heart,
he might endure all with a smile and sing in the furnace. Now, child of God, thou art to do the same. Remember,
all thou hast to suffer is sent in love. It is hard work for a child, when his father has been chastening it, to look at
the rod as a picture of love. You can not make your children do that: but when they grow up to be men and
women how thankful they are to you then! “O father,” says the son, “I know now why it was I was so often
chastened; I had a proud hot spirit; it would have been the ruin of me if thou hadst not whipped it out of me.
Now, I thank thee, my father, for it.”
So, while we are here below we are nothing but little children; we can not prize the rod: when we come of
age, and we go into our estates in Paradise, we shall look back upon the rod of the Covenant as being better than
Aaron’s rod, for it blossoms with mercy. We shall say to it, “Thou art the most wondrous thing in all the list of my
treasures. Lord, I thank thee that thou didst not leave me unafflicted, or else I had not been where I am, and what
I am, a child of God in Paradise.” “I have this week,” says one, “sustained so serious a loss in my business, that I
am afraid I shall be utterly broken up.” There is love in that. “I came here this morning,” says one, “and I left a
dead child in the house dear to my heart.” There is love in that. That coffin and that shroud will both be full of
love; and when your child is taken away, it shall not be in anger. “Ah!” cries another, “but I have been exceedingly
sick, and even now I feel I ought not to have ventured out; I must return to my bed.” Ah! he makes your bed in
your affliction. There is love in every pain, in every twitch of the nerve; in every pang that shoots through the
members, there is love. “Ah!” says one, “it is not myself, but I have got a dear one that is sick.” There is love
there, too. Do what God may, he can not do an unloving act toward his people. O Lord! thou art Omnipotent;
thou canst do all things; but thou canst not lie, and thou canst not be unkind to thine elect. No, Omnipotence may
build a thousand worlds, and fill them with bounties; Omnipotence may powder mountains into dust, and burn the
sea, and consume the sky, but Omnipotence can not do an unloving thing toward a believer. Oh! rest quite sure,
Christian, a hard thing, an unloving thing from God toward one of his own people is quite impossible. He is kind to
you when he casts you into prison as when he takes you into a palace; He is as good when he sends famine into
your house as when he fills your barns with plenty. The only question is, Art thou his child? If so, he hath rebuked
thee in affection, and there is love in his chastisement.
I have now done, but not until I have made my last appeal. I have now to turn from God’s people to the rest
of you. Ah! my hearers, there are some of you that have no God; you have no Christ on whom to cast your
troubles. I see some of you to-day dressed in the habiliments of mourning; I suppose you have lost some one dear
unto you. Oh! ye that are robed in black, is God your God? Or are you mourning now, without God to wipe every
tear from your eye? I know that many of you are struggling now in your business with very sharp and hard times.
Can you tell your troubles to Jesus, or have you to bear them all yourself friendless and helpless? Many men
have been driven mad, because they had no one to whom to communicate their sorrow; and how many others had
been driven worse than mad, because when they told their sorrows their confidence was betrayed. O poor
mourning spirit, if thou hadst, as thou mightest have done, gone and told him all thy woes, he would not have
laughed at thee, and he would never have told it out again. Oh I remember when once my young heart ached in
boyhood, when I first loved the Saviour. I was far away from father and mother, and all I loved, and I thought my
soul would burst; for I was an usher in a school, in a place where I could meet with no sympathy or help. Well, I
went to my chamber, and told my little griefs into the ears of Jesus. They were great griefs to me then, though
they are nothing now. When I just whispered them on my knees into the ear of him who had loved me with an
everlasting love, oh! it was so sweet, none can tell. If I had told them to somebody else, they would have told
them again; but he, my blessed confidant, he knows my secrets, and he never tells them. Oh! what can you do
that have got no Jesus to tell your troubles to? And the worst of it is, you have got more troubles to come. Times
may be hard now, but they will be harder one day they will be harder when they come to an end. They say it is
hard to live, but it is very hard to die. When one comes to die and has Jesus with him, even then dying is hard
work; but to die without a Saviour! Oh! my friends, are you inclined to risk it? Will you face the grim monarch,
and no Saviour with you? Remember, you must do it; you must die soon. The chamber shall soon be hushed in
silence no sound shall be heard except the babbling watch that ever tells the flight of time. The physician shall
“Hush!” and hold up his finger, and whisper in a suppressed voice, “He can not last many minutes longer.” And
the wife and the children, or the father and the mother, will stand around your bed and look at you, as I have
looked at some, with a sad, sad heart. They will look at you a little while, till at last the death-change will pass o’er
your face. “He is gone!” it shall be said; and the hand uplifted shall be dropped down again, and the eye shall be
glazed in darkness, and then the mother will turn away and say, “O my child, I could have borne all this if there
had been hope in thine end!” And when the minister comes in to comfort the family, he will ask the question of
the father, “Do you think your son had an interest in the blood of Christ?” The reply will be, “O sir, we must not
judge, but I never saw anything like it; I never had any reason to hope: that is my greatest sorrow.” There, there! I
could bury every friend without a tear, compared with the burial of an ungodly friend. Oh! it seems such an awful
thing, to have one allied to you by ties of blood, dead and in hell.
We generally speak very softly about the dead. We say, “Well, we hope.” Sometimes we tell great lies, for we
know we do not hope at all. We wish it may be so, but we can not hope it; we never saw any grounds that should
lead us to hope. But would it not be an awful thing if we were honest enough to look the dread reality in its
face if the husband were simply to look at it, and say, “There was my wife; she was an ungodly, careless
woman. I know at least, she never said anything concerning repentance and faith; and if she died so, and I have
every reason to fear she did, then she is cast away from God.” It would be unkind to say it; but it is only honest
for us to know it to look dread truth in the face. Oh! my fellow-men and brethren! Oh! ye that are partners with
me of an immortal life! We shall one day meet again before the throne of God; but ere that time comes, we shall
each of us be separated, and go our divers ways down the shelving banks of the river of death. My fellow-man,
art thou prepared to die alone? I ask thee this question again Art thou prepared to arise in the day of judgment
without a Saviour? Art thou willing to run all risks and face thy Maker, when he comes to judge thee, without an
advocate to plead thy cause? Art thou prepared to hear him say, “Depart ye cursed!” Are ye ready now to endure
the everlasting ire of him who smites, and smiting once, doth smite forever? Oh! if ye will make your bed in hell, if
you are prepared to be damned, if you are willing to be so, then live in sin and indulge in pleasures; you will get
your wish. But if ye would not; if ye would enter heaven, and ye would be saved, “Turn thee, turn thee, why will
ye die, O house of Israel?” May God the Holy Spirit, enable you to repent of sin and to believe on Jesus; and then
you shall have a portion among them that are sanctified: but unrepenting and unbelieving, if ye die so, ye must be
driven from his presence, never to have life, and joy, and liberty, as long as eternity shall last.
The Lord prevent this, for Jesus, sake.